Am i dating a commitment phobe
Some men just prefer to go really slowly getting to know a woman and start a relationship with her.
If you’ve talked to him and he says he wants a relationship, give it time.
What does he do or say when you bring up the future?
If you were to try to make plans in a month or two, would he agree or come up with an excuse about why he can’t do it?
Ask yourself: has this guy ever made plans more than a week or two out?
Does he talk about the far-off future, like when you’re married or when you have kids together?
That mean that if you’d stayed with him, you would have married him!He may not flat out tell you that he’s seeing other women, but assume that if he’s not committed to you, he’s dating other women. Does he often have other plans but is vague when you ask for details? One minute he’s calling you baby and only has eyes for you…the next you don’t see him for a week or three.If he seems to be all hot for you then suddenly goes cold, it could be because he’s one of these commitment-phobic men.If he doesn’t seem to be moving in the general direction of commitment within a few months, realize that he never will.
I really urge you to keep your options open while you’re dating this guy.
But here’s my caveat: set a time limit for how long you’ll wait around.