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Marriage is the deepest and most holy relationship you will probably ever have. It means the pure soul of each of you is supposed to utilize your mind, your body, and your self control for the , in ways not possible in any other relationship; marriage is the perfect hive for that.
Those couples who live in such a sweet loving marriage never consider cheating.
But if you pretend things at home were fine until he strayed you are fooling yourself. If they were, and he thought so too, he would cherish you and never do anything to hurt you.
His straying is a wake up call, or a death knell; that is up to you.
If you do not change the underlying dynamics of your marriage, which you can accomplish without his involvement, this, and other problems, will keep cropping up again, and again.
It is not easy to hear that your husband would not have strayed if your marriage was better.Do nothing positive and proactive and your marriage will keep getting worse; guaranteed.But if you take positive action you will not only save your marriage, but you will be able to have a great marriage; I promise you that, too. If you think about what I write here, and I mean deeply, your eyes will open.If you ‘hear’ validations of your frustrations, anger, and condemnations, you will have more obstacles to contend with. This is a problem for many people, and one I take very seriously. I created the SEW technique to help people, and advise its use.
I used to be among the very few who advised against confrontation, condemnation, and venting. Not just for when you have troubles, but for your whole life.
The SEW technique is literally in the first section of our marriage course, that’s how important it is.