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When she doesn’t “feel” these qualities in a guy, it’s game over. Yet, not too surprisingly, the immature “boy-man” is totally tone-deaf to this reality.
He approaches love in the same way that he approaches everything else in life: with a laser focus on achieving “victory.” It doesn’t take a genius IQ to know that this is a formula for disaster.
She knows she can grow and learn with him, making every moment even more valuable.
So, know what your purpose is in life and always be pursuing it. Immerse yourself in the things you’re good at and passionate about.
So ask yourself, are you still allowing the “boy-man” inside of you to leak out and run things?
Or, is the feeling that you carry around inside of you one of strength, purpose, and authenticity?
If so, a great woman sees it from a mile away, and it makes her run for the hills.
The last things she needs in her life is another boy-man to babysit.
As we talked about, the immature “boy-man” is constantly trying to prove himself and win every battle, usually in an endless struggle just to feel good about himself.
He’s all about dialing back conflict, adding value, and generally helping a situation instead.